Creative Life
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A Millennial Trying Her Best-ish While Running an Online Business
Because apparently surviving adulthood wasn’t challenging enough, I decided to become my own boss… while still having a regular job. Remember when we were kids in the ‘90s and thought being an adult meant having everything figured out? A steady job. A house. Financial stability. Maybe a little extra money for fun things. Yeah. That was adorable. Fast-forward to my 30s, and here I am running an online business, working a regular job, managing multiple websites, creating digital products, designing artwork, building apps, and trying to remember whether I’ve actually eaten lunch. And somehow, I’m still wondering what I want to be when I grow up. Welcome to being a…
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Meet My Cozy Critters: Two Little Apps for Reflection, Creativity & Self-Care 🐾
Because sometimes we need to write our feelings out, and sometimes we just need to scribble them away. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about taking care of my mental health, it’s that self-care doesn’t always look the same. Some days, I need to journal. Other days, I need to pick up a pencil, draw something completely random, and let my creativity take over. And sometimes? I just need a cute little animal reminding me that I’m doing my best-ish. That’s part of why I created Cozy Critter Studio, my growing collection of cozy self-care and creative wellness apps. I’m an artist, a mental health advocate, and someone who believes…
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The Art of Changing With the Times: What It’s Like Being a Modern Artist in a Digital World
From traditional art and Polaroid cameras to digital creativity, artificial intelligence, and the internet — being an artist means learning to evolve without losing yourself. I’ve been thinking about how much the art world has changed. There was a time when creating art meant picking up a pencil, a paintbrush, or a camera and physically creating something with your hands. Photography meant film, Polaroids, darkrooms, and waiting to see how your pictures turned out. Graphic design meant working with physical materials, cutting, pasting, and carefully putting everything together. And if you wanted someone to see your artwork? You needed a gallery, a local exhibition, or someone willing to give your…
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Welp, It’s Official. #ByeInstagram 👋
It’s not you, Instagram. It’s me. Okay, maybe it’s a little you. Welp. It’s official. After years of posting, rebranding, trying again, questioning myself, and wondering if the algorithm secretly has a personal vendetta against me… I’m finally giving up on Instagram. And honestly? It’s a little bittersweet. Instagram and I practically grew up together. I created my first account back in 2014, during my senior year of high school. You know, back when Instagram was actually about sharing photos? When you could post a random picture of your dog, your coffee, a sunset, or literally whatever you wanted, and the people who followed you would actually SEE it? Remember…
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I Didn’t Choose Art. Art Chose Me
How creativity found me in my darkest moments and became the way I learned to express what I couldn’t say out loud. I’ve always said that I didn’t choose art. Art chose me. And I don’t mean that in some magical, everything-fell-into-place kind of way. I mean that art found me when I was in a really dark place. When I didn’t have the words to explain what was happening inside my head. When I was desperately trying to hide parts of myself that were slowly finding their way to the surface. Before I started creating self-care resources, writing mental health reflections, designing things, or building my own little creative…
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Why I Started This Substack (Because Apparently One Blog Wasn’t Enough)
30-something, overthinking, creating, and still figuring out this whole internet thing. I’ve been blogging for years. I’ve created websites, redesigned them, changed my mind about layouts approximately a million times, and spent way too many hours trying to figure out SEO. And guess what? I still haven’t figured it all out. I have my main blog, AbbyJuli.com, where I share mental wellness resources, personal experiences, creative projects, and longer blog posts. And I’m keeping it! But lately, I’ve wanted to get back to something a little simpler. Something that feels more like the old days of blogging, when people shared their thoughts without worrying about keywords, algorithms, or whether their content…
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“You can do anything—but not everything.”
“You can do anything—but not everything.” Honestly, I think a lot of us forget that. We try to be the strong one, the dependable one, the fixer, the helper, the person who always says yes. We stretch ourselves so thin trying to prove we care that we forget we’re human too. Lately I’ve been realizing that exhaustion is not proof of kindness. One of my coworkers said something that stuck with me:“You can’t always be the hero. They can still count on you if you say no once.” And maybe that’s what healing looks like sometimes. Not becoming cold.Not stopping caring.Just learning that being a good person does not require…
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My Mind Isn’t Always a Quiet Place, So I Turn My Feelings Into Art 💜
Living with anxiety, depression, and schizophrenia—and finding a little peace through creativity. Sometimes I wish I could turn my brain off. Not forever. Just long enough to enjoy a little peace and quiet. Because honestly? Living inside my head can be exhausting. There’s the anxiety that makes me overthink absolutely everything. The depression that sometimes makes even the things I love feel difficult to enjoy. And schizophrenia, which can add an entirely different kind of confusion and noise to my thoughts. It’s a lot. Some days, my mind feels like 50 browser tabs are open, half of them are frozen, and I have absolutely no idea where the music is…
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I’m an Artist, but Sometimes My Biggest Critic Is Me
When creativity becomes another thing you feel like you have to be perfect at. Here’s something funny about being a creative person with anxiety. I absolutely love creating things. Drawing, designing, photography, writing, digital art… you name it. My brain is constantly coming up with new ideas. But you know what else my brain is really good at? Convincing me that whatever I’m creating isn’t good enough. 🙃 I’ll sit down with an idea I’m genuinely excited about, and suddenly that little voice starts chiming in. That doesn’t look right. Someone else could make that better. Why doesn’t it look like the picture in my head? And before I know it,…